The surprise fee
Costs appeared late in the process, and nobody explained what changed.
The mortgage rematch starts here
I HATEMY LENDER.LET'S CHANGE THAT.
Tired of confusing numbers, mixed messages, or a mortgage experience that feels like a title fight? You deserve someone in your corner.
Meet Barry Diamond · NMLS #952076 · I Love My Lender, LLC
A better game plan
Same old runaround
Same old runaroundClear conversations✦More mortgage choices✦A lender in your corner
Sound familiar?WHAT HAS YOU
WHAT HAS YOU
SEEING RED?
Sometimes the hardest part of a mortgage isn't the paperwork. It's feeling like nobody is fighting for clarity.
Radio silence
Calls, emails, updates. You shouldn't need a detective just to get an answer.
Rate confusion
Rate, APR, points, closing costs—it's hard to compare offers without the full picture.
One-size-fits-all
Your mortgage goals are personal. Your options should be explored that way, too.
In this corner...GOOD LENDER.
GOOD LENDER.
EVIL LENDER.
YOU DECIDE.
Meet the two sides of the mortgage experience. Evil makes everything a fight. Good shows up with a plan, clear answers, and options worth discussing.
GET IN THE GOOD CORNERThe main eventGood Barry vs. Evil Barry
Your next roundTELL US WHAT
TELL US WHAT
YOU'RE FIGHTING FOR.
No complicated quiz. Just pick what sounds most like your situation, and we'll point you toward the right place to explore options.
Your suggested starting point
Explore refinance options
Compare the total costs and benefits of possible refinance strategies, whether you're exploring a rate change, cash-out, or a different loan term.
Different goals. Different game plans.FIND YOUR
FIND YOUR
NEXT MOVE.
Whichever corner you're coming from, start with the mortgage program that fits your goal.
Home purchase
First home or next home? Explore your financing options.
EXPLORE PURCHASERefinance
Consider changes to your rate, term, or equity access.
EXPLORE REFINANCEVA loans
Specialized options for eligible veterans and service members.
EXPLORE VA LOANSDSCR investor
Financing conversations focused on rental properties and cash flow.
EXPLORE DSCRReverse mortgage
Explore potential home-equity solutions, including certain programs for eligible homeowners age 55+.
EXPLORE REVERSE
Barry Diamond
Individual NMLS #952076I Love My Lender, LLC
Corporate NMLS #320841
Individual NMLS #952076I Love My Lender, LLC
Corporate NMLS #320841
The name behind the punchlineFROM "I HATE"
FROM "I HATE"
TO "I LOVE."
The joke gets you here. The mortgage conversation is what matters. Barry Diamond and I Love My Lender are here to help you understand your choices and decide your next move.
- Discuss your goals with a mortgage professional.
- Review program options and the trade-offs that matter.
- Get clarity on rates, fees, payment scenarios, and next steps.
Quick answersBEFORE
BEFORE
THE BELL.
A few things worth knowing before making your next mortgage move.
Is “I Hate My Lender” a real mortgage company?
It's the tongue-in-cheek introduction to I Love My Lender, LLC, powered by Loan Factory. The idea is simple: if your mortgage experience has been frustrating, let's have a better conversation.
Should I switch lenders if I'm unhappy?
Maybe—but first review where you are in the process, whether a rate is locked, your deadlines, and the full costs of any changes. The right choice depends on your specific situation.
Do you only help people refinance?
No. Explore home purchase, refinance, VA, investor-focused DSCR, and reverse mortgage options. Each link above leads to that program's dedicated page.
How do I compare mortgage offers?
Compare more than the interest rate. Look at APR, lender fees, discount points, cash needed at closing, your expected time in the loan, and the terms and risks of each offer. Ask for a Loan Estimate when appropriate.
Does choosing a program mean I'm approved?
No. These links help you explore potential options, not determine eligibility or guarantee approval. Loan availability and terms depend on underwriting, property details, and program requirements.
It's your moveSTOP HATING.
CALL 844-WHY-LOVE STOP HATING.
START TALKING.
The next round of your mortgage story could start with one conversation.